Monday, July 27, 2009

Tak Beri Perhatian Pada Anak, Salah Siapa?

Salam. Bismillah.
Aku sedang memerhati, dalam diam dan dalam hati tidak punya rasa bersalah andai kata aku tidak menyokong pihak pertama yang memarahi dan pihak kedua yang dimarahi. Cuma lumrah dunia, yang atas selalunya benar (dalam situasi Allah katakan ibu dan ayah itu tidak bersalah dalam pelbagai hal selagi ianya tidak menyekutukan Allah, dan si anak harus patuh dan tidak meninggikan suara pada ibu dan ayah).
Jadi kes ini ku sekadar pandang, tidak mengeluarkan suara. Sekadar dengar tidak menokok tambah. Sekadar menonton tapi tidak punya perasaan. Meski ku agak2, salah si anak bila menyoal si ibu bertalu tanpa belas kasihan.. apatah lagi bila si ibu mengalirkan air mata.. besarkan dosa itu??

18 comments:

Mama Shinta Musraika said...

salam nonnie..

ibu bapa tu pon manusia biasa. Akan buat silap & salah.. tapi anak-anak wajib menghormatinya. kalau mak ayah bersalah.. pasti ada cara untuk memperbetulkannya tanpa meninggikan suara.. apa lagi buat ibuda mengalirkan air mata! surga tu di telepak kakinya tu.....!

tapi yelah.. ia complicated dlm situasi tertentu..

nonnie78 said...

salam mimie.

ku cuba untuk tulis kisah benar tapi rasanya tak sampai hati melainkan ku guna kata ganti nama untuk semua watak.. nanti lah bila senang ku garap sebuah kisah kehidupan, kisah benar yang terjadi di depan mata ku.. sekarang sedang sibuk berkebun.. hahahah..

suealeen said...

wahhh.. berkebun sambil online. dahsat tuuu...

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kakyong said...

memang komplikated dlm hal ni..

so kita ni amik iktibar lah dr peristiwa sebgini... sbb daku pun berada dlm kelompok yg tdk diberi perhatian... not 100% tp certain area kita wish mak ayah kita boleh buat lebih baik lagi...

nak berharap x guna dah.. so kita lah beri perhatian lebih pada anak2...

nonnie kau pun sibuk berkebun ya...

add kakyong --> habibah yahya

nonnie78 said...

sue.. ko igt aku berkebun betul ker?? aku berkebun dalam facebook daaa.. hahahahah... kebun tengah nak membiak ni.. tgh kumpul duit nk beli perhiasan kebun yang lain.. citer??? ptg sikit.. tak pun esok je sbb esok bos aku meeting kat site..

kak yong.. sat lagi saya add yeee...

EIJAM'S FAMILY said...

betul.. complicated dlm situasi tertentu..

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